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August 3, 2009

The Enemy of the Good Life

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My small group and I recently set out on an adventure—we’re looking
at the spiritual disciplines and how they help us to live life fully. Fully
with God and fully with one another. We’re using a book by James Bryan Smith
called The Good and Beautiful God: Falling in Love with the God Jesus Knows, and when my friend Stephanie cracked the spine to
have a look at the contents she nearly fainted with relief. Stephanie’s a mom
of two busy boys under the age of six, and helps her husband Kirby run a
business in her “spare time.” She doesn’t have a lot of room—in her heart or
her schedule—to add more guilt-inducing spiritual “to do”s.

Why did Stephanie laugh in joy after scanning the first
chapter? Well, our first assignment on the road to sainthood is, wait for it,
to go to sleep.

That’s right. In setting out a life fully alive to God and
His Church, the first exercise to undertake was to sleep for a minimum of 10
hours, and, ideally, to sleep until you got sick of being in bed.

Many of us react to this exercise with incredulity. What
could sleep possibly have to do with living a more holy life? Shouldn’t we be
reading our Bible more or learning contemplative prayer or visiting prisoners
with encouraging words?

While those things are a part of living a Kingdom-shaped life,
our hurried and harried lifestyles make them a nearly impossible place to
start. Often, when we set out to do these things, we’re setting ourselves up
for failure, because we haven’t grasped a basic truth:

God is good.

God is so good, in
fact, that He’s actually got it all covered. Truly. He doesn’t need our help,
and He doesn’t need us to run ourselves ragged in attempts to gain His love.

Instead, what He does need is for us to slow down a little.
As we rush from activity to activity, surviving with, on average, less than 7
hours of sleep a night, we’re only proving that we think ourselves
indispensable and God a cruel task-master in the sky.

We’re also ignoring our bodies and their very real needs.
Human beings aren’t souls in bodies. We are souls and bodies, and how we treat ourselves physically is a
reflection of the state of our souls. We can’t abuse our bodies and expect to
grow spiritually.

Sleep is an act of surrender. It’s a beautiful co-mingling
of effort and grace. You can’t will yourself to sleep (as many insomniacs
know), but you can put yourself in the place of receiving it. You can’t force
yourself into restfulness, but you can accept the gift when it comes to you.

So, our assignment for our first week was to sleep. We were
to get help if we needed to—with the kids or other responsibilities—and either
sleep until we couldn’t sleep any more (which for some of us would be a long
time) or sleep more than seven hours a night for three consecutive nights. To
Stephanie, it sounded like a luxury, a treat. To God, it sounds like the right
order of things—His children relaxing into His care and provision.

It may not sound like a spiritual question, but the next
time you see your friend in the grocery store or your (gasp) pastor in church,
you might ask how much sleep he’s getting. Exhaustion is the number one enemy
of spiritual formation. If we aren’t choosing to rest, we aren’t choosing for
God.

So, tonight, get a good night’s rest. Thank God that you aren’t God, and that His love and His power are sufficient
to see you through the night, and prepare you for the next day.

 

I will lie down and sleep in peace for You alone, O LORD,
make me dwell in safety.
– Ps. 4:8

  1. Jen Brukiewa
    October 29, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    “That’s right. In setting out a life fully alive to God and His Church, the first exercise to undertake was to sleep for a minimum of 10 hours, and, ideally, to sleep until you got sick of being in bed.”
    Ha! How great is that? Some other good verses which really relate to this and has been a comfort to Dave and I both is from Psalm 127
    “Unless the LORD builds the house,they labor in vain who build it;unless the LORD guards the city,the watchman keeps awake in vain. It is vain for you to rise up early,
    to retire late, to eat the bread of painful labors;for He gives to His beloved even in his sleep.”